There is Life Even After Losing Love

 

There is Life Even After Losing Love

        In many failed love, separation comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be as twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, the end is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always beyond the control of circumstance. Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is a resolve we make ourselves.

        Many, however, remain & hold on to the empty promise of a memory--a past that is gone forever and vows that may never be fulfilled. We choose to live in the shadow of someone we still love, someone who only used to love us & refuse to turn the pages of our lives so we can relish the beautiful memories we’ve had. 

        Acceptance is the key to a new beginning & time is the healer of old wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkest & loneliest moments. There is always hope for those who believe and a chance for those who try. We will never grow with bitterness & wishful yearning. Life can move on only if we open our hearts & give ourselves a chance to find love again. 

        Remember that there will always be life even after losing love. That life may even be better than before. For all our pain & suffering come with a purpose. They are meant not to discourage us but to make us stronger and better persons. 

        Sometimes people come into your life to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become You never know who these people may be but you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. 

     Sometimes things may seem horrible, painful & unfair but in reflection you will find that overcoming these obstacles will test the limit of your soul & prove your true potential, strength, will power, or heart. 

        Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by good luck. Without this small test, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere but dull and utterly pointless. 

        If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust & the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally not only because they love you, but they are teaching you to love & to open your heart & eyes to things. 

        The only thing that keeps people from moving on are the tears they shed over spilled milk. They close their eyes & cry over the things that could have been & never look beyond the beautiful things that could be. They blame themselves & others for the love they lost and their guilt haunts them even in their sleep.

         Let us all remember that it is always better to have tried & failed than not to have tried & lived the rest of our lives regretting the chances we've missed and wondering what could have been if only we have listened to the silent cries of our hearts. 

        It's true that love doesn't always have a happy ending but life doesn't have to stop where love ends. You have to move on and never let love die. Give yourself a chance to be happy. Losing love may be very painful but it is always better than not having loved at all. For with this loss of love comes a new beginning and hope of loving again & love may finally find it's own happy ending!

       Every sunrise is the chance for a fresh start. We may from time to time encounter mistakes and problems but each day is God's gift to us to make things better. Waking up each day signals a new chance to stand-up and start again.

        And no matter what happens, always enjoy the ride. Each and every day will come with its ups and downs but like a roller-coaster ride we should enjoy every moment of it. Remember, life is not like a Disneyland which we can always revisit and we certainly don't want a fast pass. 

        You only have one ride through life, so make the most out of it and enjoy the ride. Life isn't perfect but it is worth every moment spending it.

💗Atty. Su